Payback time

Have you ever done something to get your own back on someone who's done something wrong to you, for exmaple an ex?

I remember a long time ago I was with a guy and found out I was pregnant. At that same time an ex girlfriend of his wrote to him asking him to go back to her and as soon as he knew I was pregnant off to her he went and I was dumped.

I found out her phone number and got a friend of mine to phone her up and tell her the truth, that he had only gone back to her because he'd got me pregnant, next thing I knew, he was dumped and all alone. Did it make me feel better? At the time yes but once I calmed down I realised I was better off without him

my ex was living between his then girlfriend and me, i finally lost the head ..........put all his clothes in his suitcase and then poured a pail of water over them and put his case on the door step

Lol morgan. I guess my biggest payback (if you can call it that) was walking away from my first husband after 6 years of marriage, divorcing him and being able to move on. It was a struggle to let go at first, but the best decision I ever made, then it was good to see him suffer when he realised what he had lost!!!!! served him right, he should have treated me better Lol

it's not easy candy i was divorced twice, both marriages were pretty stormy, but i've been married to a lovely man 28yrs this xmas eve.........getting rid of the first 2 was the best thing that ever happened to me

same here morgan, I found the right one eventually Lol and its 27 years for us this year.

good for you candy, i got married 2 young we all make mistakes

I can relate to that Candy, left my first husband after 10 years of living in hell, took ages to get over it but the best thing I ever did in the long run. Took me a lot of years and another marriage where my husband died but I'm finally happy and with the loveliest man anyone could ever wish to meet

Looks like we all found the light at the end of the tunnel Lol but its strange really although I was very unhappy at time, as you get older I think you just put it down to experience. I certainly wouldn't put up with anything now like I did then Lol

I wouldnt put up with half of what he put me through now candy. I was a lot younger then and very naive. I can say though that the whole experience made me the person I am today so some good came out of it besides my daughter

tried .... but it allways bites me back in the arse

I think you showed that you were the better person by doing that, not sure I could have stayed quiet